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	<title>Comments on: On the Sacrifice of Wholeness: Healing a Woman&#8217;s Hurt</title>
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	<description>Advice for a delicious life</description>
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		<title>By: Jaime Mintun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaime Mintun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 18:17:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you Sylvia. Your words warm my heart! I will tell you that for the first two years I did allow it to steal my life. I was walking dead through the world though no one knew it... not even me.

It is both infinitely hard and so simple to step one day into the broken parts of ourselves and decide to love, honor and heal them.

If you have a story to tell and the silence has stretched so long... perhaps give yourself a safe space - and share the story with yourself.

That&#039;s how it began for me.

Sending my love and gratitude,
Jaime</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Sylvia. Your words warm my heart! I will tell you that for the first two years I did allow it to steal my life. I was walking dead through the world though no one knew it&#8230; not even me.</p>
<p>It is both infinitely hard and so simple to step one day into the broken parts of ourselves and decide to love, honor and heal them.</p>
<p>If you have a story to tell and the silence has stretched so long&#8230; perhaps give yourself a safe space &#8211; and share the story with yourself.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s how it began for me.</p>
<p>Sending my love and gratitude,<br />
Jaime</p>
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		<title>By: Sylvia</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sylvia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Dec 2010 17:24:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jaime, You are such a beautiful person. Between your site and the radio show you just did with Vince I&#039;m left numb. Words escape me. To overcome such tragedy and become who you are is amazing to me. To not allow others to steal your life from you and overcome it all is wonderful. Wow I guess is all that comes to mind. Beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story, perhaps one day I will be strong enough to share my own. Thank you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jaime, You are such a beautiful person. Between your site and the radio show you just did with Vince I&#8217;m left numb. Words escape me. To overcome such tragedy and become who you are is amazing to me. To not allow others to steal your life from you and overcome it all is wonderful. Wow I guess is all that comes to mind. Beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your story, perhaps one day I will be strong enough to share my own. Thank you.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaime Mintun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaime Mintun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:03:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Beautiful website Steve! Thanks for recommending it. I&#039;ll check it out.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Beautiful website Steve! Thanks for recommending it. I&#8217;ll check it out.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaime Mintun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaime Mintun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:02:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for sharing your response Jason. It means a lot!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for sharing your response Jason. It means a lot!!</p>
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		<title>By: steve bickel</title>
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		<dc:creator>steve bickel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jamie,

I think you might be here in San Diego ... you might enjoy one of the Friday night salons at shaktirising.org

Namaste,

Steve</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jamie,</p>
<p>I think you might be here in San Diego &#8230; you might enjoy one of the Friday night salons at shaktirising.org</p>
<p>Namaste,</p>
<p>Steve</p>
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		<title>By: Jason Miller</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason Miller</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Aug 2010 16:54:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jaime, your post had so much impact it hit me squarely in the chest.  I felt pain.  Here&#039;s to healing women worldwide, and we men too.  I look forward to hearing more from you.  You are among those leading the way.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jaime, your post had so much impact it hit me squarely in the chest.  I felt pain.  Here&#8217;s to healing women worldwide, and we men too.  I look forward to hearing more from you.  You are among those leading the way.</p>
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		<title>By: Jaime Mintun</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jaime Mintun</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 20:04:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Isabell, Your sharing is so deeply appreciated. I&#039;ll check out the resources you mentioned. This is exactly what I hope to see facilitated over the coming months as we join together and share with each other. 

Our silence has chains stronger than any prison. I&#039;m glad to see us all giving voice. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Isabell, Your sharing is so deeply appreciated. I&#8217;ll check out the resources you mentioned. This is exactly what I hope to see facilitated over the coming months as we join together and share with each other. </p>
<p>Our silence has chains stronger than any prison. I&#8217;m glad to see us all giving voice. <img src='http://www.jaimemintun.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: iabell fearnsby</title>
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		<dc:creator>iabell fearnsby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Aug 2010 18:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Laura Espinoza from the Azteca in Mexico is a Grandmother in the Grandmothers Gathering that is now happening every year when native grandmothers come together for wisdom and healing, &quot;It is said that all traditions come through the woman, but beyond that is the feminine part of human beings which implies the sensitivity, the love, unity. So it is very important to have the opportunity to find other women who ant to rescue our children...&quot;

Part 1: W.O.M.B. Grandmother&#039;s Gathering 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xst4uL9wY7s


Part 2: W.O.M.B. Grandmother&#039;s Gathering

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xgytVNqU8U


very inspiring!
&lt;3 Isabell</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Laura Espinoza from the Azteca in Mexico is a Grandmother in the Grandmothers Gathering that is now happening every year when native grandmothers come together for wisdom and healing, &#8220;It is said that all traditions come through the woman, but beyond that is the feminine part of human beings which implies the sensitivity, the love, unity. So it is very important to have the opportunity to find other women who ant to rescue our children&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Part 1: W.O.M.B. Grandmother&#8217;s Gathering </p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xst4uL9wY7s" rel="nofollow" class="extlink">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xst4uL9wY7s</a></p>
<p>Part 2: W.O.M.B. Grandmother&#8217;s Gathering</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xgytVNqU8U" rel="nofollow" class="extlink">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xgytVNqU8U</a></p>
<p>very inspiring!<br />
&lt;3 Isabell</p>
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		<title>By: iabell fearnsby</title>
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		<dc:creator>iabell fearnsby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 18:53:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Jaime,

Thank you for this. (I found it linked from Devon Whites Linkedin page.) 

Media! Well first kill your television. ha hah!! 

I teach yoga, am a birth partner and a leadership teacher to jr.high girls. In all of these arenas I come into contact with the pain that we hold as women. 

Our pain is as old as our DNA can remember; witch burning our healer-sisters, stoning our foremother geniuses. 

The movie Agora (http://movies.nytimes.com/2010/05/28/movies/28agora.html) is a very graphic example of this in which Hypatia, a woman philosopher in 4th c. Egypt, comes face to face with the intolerance of a woman as genius. I met a woman in the movie theater bathroom afterwards whos parents had named her Hypatia, which brought home that we are the direct descendants of this pain.

It is not so long ago in this country where a womans life-path was to serve only, the 1970s being the beginning of the feminist movement (when I was born.) We are still very much at the forefront of this relatively new movement. 

And in other countries right now stoning women still occurs. 

So yes, we have pain, collective, ancient, personal.

What you and so many others are doing is crucial to our healing!! The dialogue is crucial!

What I do with my students, my mothers giving birth, is ask that we are gentle with ourselves. That we love ourselves as we go into the pain to feel it, and breathe into it, release it. Thich Nhat Hanh&#039;s book True Love goes into this process in detail, http://www.shambhala.com/html/catalog/items/isbn/978-1-59030-404-4.cfm .

Ive even heard that to go into a yoga pose without imagining ourselves in it first, and then placing ourselves in that imagined pose, is a violence to ourselves. I use this technique for women who find that yoga makes them cry (brings up their &quot;pain body&quot; as Ekhardt Tolle calls it.) I call it intention then action yoga. : )

Im holding in my heart a world where my jr. high girls feel safe to be their true selves. Who know who they are are are celebrated for loving themselves and walking their true path. 

I would love to connect with you more with the work you do!

Thank you sister,
isabell fearnsby
(mother, artist, art and leadership teacher, yoga teacher, birth partner)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Jaime,</p>
<p>Thank you for this. (I found it linked from Devon Whites Linkedin page.) </p>
<p>Media! Well first kill your television. ha hah!! </p>
<p>I teach yoga, am a birth partner and a leadership teacher to jr.high girls. In all of these arenas I come into contact with the pain that we hold as women. </p>
<p>Our pain is as old as our DNA can remember; witch burning our healer-sisters, stoning our foremother geniuses. </p>
<p>The movie Agora (<a href="http://movies.nytimes.com/2010/05/28/movies/28agora.html" rel="nofollow" class="extlink">http://movies.nytimes.com/2010/05/28/movies/28agora.html</a>) is a very graphic example of this in which Hypatia, a woman philosopher in 4th c. Egypt, comes face to face with the intolerance of a woman as genius. I met a woman in the movie theater bathroom afterwards whos parents had named her Hypatia, which brought home that we are the direct descendants of this pain.</p>
<p>It is not so long ago in this country where a womans life-path was to serve only, the 1970s being the beginning of the feminist movement (when I was born.) We are still very much at the forefront of this relatively new movement. </p>
<p>And in other countries right now stoning women still occurs. </p>
<p>So yes, we have pain, collective, ancient, personal.</p>
<p>What you and so many others are doing is crucial to our healing!! The dialogue is crucial!</p>
<p>What I do with my students, my mothers giving birth, is ask that we are gentle with ourselves. That we love ourselves as we go into the pain to feel it, and breathe into it, release it. Thich Nhat Hanh&#8217;s book True Love goes into this process in detail, <a href="http://www.shambhala.com/html/catalog/items/isbn/978-1-59030-404-4.cfm" rel="nofollow" class="extlink">http://www.shambhala.com/html/catalog/items/isbn/978-1-59030-404-4.cfm</a> .</p>
<p>Ive even heard that to go into a yoga pose without imagining ourselves in it first, and then placing ourselves in that imagined pose, is a violence to ourselves. I use this technique for women who find that yoga makes them cry (brings up their &#8220;pain body&#8221; as Ekhardt Tolle calls it.) I call it intention then action yoga. : )</p>
<p>Im holding in my heart a world where my jr. high girls feel safe to be their true selves. Who know who they are are are celebrated for loving themselves and walking their true path. </p>
<p>I would love to connect with you more with the work you do!</p>
<p>Thank you sister,<br />
isabell fearnsby<br />
(mother, artist, art and leadership teacher, yoga teacher, birth partner)</p>
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		<title>By: Ariel GB Kennedy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ariel GB Kennedy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 14 Aug 2010 06:55:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jaime, 
I am truly look forward to O! Lila.  

Take care
Ariel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jaime,<br />
I am truly look forward to O! Lila.  </p>
<p>Take care<br />
Ariel</p>
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